12 to 1 am: prep items for getting ready for bed.
1 – 2 am: feed baby, change diaper, put baby back down to sleep, clean feeding supplies
2 – 4am: spend half an hour to 45 minutes trying to go back to sleep, sleep, wake up and feed baby again.
4 – 5 am: feed baby, change diaper, put baby back down to sleep, clean feeding supplies
5 – 7 am: spend half an hour to 45 minutes trying to go back to sleep, sleep, wake up, feed baby again.
7 – 8 am: feed baby, change diaper, clean feeding supplies
8 – 9 am: get out of bed, play with/talk to baby, dress baby for new day
9 – 10 am: feed baby, change diaper, clean feeding supplies
10 – 11 am: move furniture around so that baby can be close to me while I shower, shower, put dirty clothes from previous night in laundry room, eat “breakfast” if time permits
11 – 12 pm: feed baby, change diaper, clean feeding supplies
12 – 1 pm: nap with baby if possible, otherwise, clean house – laundry, dishes, pick up items around the house
1 – 2 pm: feed baby, change diaper, clean feeding supplies
2 – 3 pm: cleaning up the house a little more, get items for dinner out and ready for Elle, get ready to pick up Elle, pack diaper bag, eat “lunch” if time permits
3 – 4 pm: feed baby, change diaper, clean feeding supplies
4 – 5 pm: pick up Elle from daycare
5 – 6 pm: feed baby, change diaper, clean feeding supplies, play with Elle
6 -7 pm: make dinner for Elle, feed Elle, eat dinner if fussy baby permits, calm fussy baby
7 – 7:30 pm: feed baby, change diaper, clean feeding supplies
7:30 – 8 pm: give Elle a bath, play with Elle
8 – 8:30 pm: read Elle a story, calm fussy baby, change diaper
8:30 – 9 pm: listen for Elle stirring, calm fussy baby
9 – 10 pm: feed baby, change diaper, clean feeding supplies
10 – 11 pm: calm fussy baby
11 – 12 am: feed baby, change diaper, clean feeding supplies
I spend on average 3 hours of every 24 actually feeding the baby. This doesn’t include when he falls asleep on the breast and I let him stay there for a little while making sure he’s really done eating or when he decides to fuss for a while during a nursing session. I change approximately 12 diapers a day and do at least one load of laundry. I get about 4 solid hours of sleep if I’m lucky and eat about two real meals. In the rare event that I’m able to make it out of the house before having to pick up Elle, I enjoy a lunch date with friends or visiting family or co-workers.
I’m looking forward to the 4 to 6 hour stretches of sleep Rhett’s supposed to start doing around 6 weeks (again, if I’m lucky). Hopefully, I won’t need to wake up to pump if he sleeps through a feeding.